We often ask questions like ‘Why am I here?”, “Where will I go?”, or “What is my destiny”? All these questions can be very confusing and you will find that your mind has gone blank. At one side, we create our own world, there is nothing called predetermined. On the other side, we know we came here for a definite purpose. We all have unique sets of talents, gifts and strengths that have been predetermined. So, is our fate predestined or have we created it?
All of us have a destiny. But it is not 100% predetermined. It can be changed through the choices we make in life. Destiny is like a plan. These are some of the important things you should know about destiny:
1. Destiny has different paths
There are many paths to destiny. You make the choice of how to reach there. When trying to reach your destiny, you should consider all the small steps you take to move towards your destiny.
For example, after three years of studying law you realized that it wasn’t your cup of tea. Instead of thinking about the time you had wasted in the wrong thing, think about what you have learned during this period and how you can use it to move forward in life.
2. Destiny has no connection with life’s problems
There is no reason to think that once you reach your destiny, all your problems will be solved. Destiny is not a solution, it is an opportunity.
3. Destiny is not always epic
Don’t think that you need to win a Nobel Prize or be the best politician of the country to reach your destiny. Destiny is your personal goal. Once you hit that goal, you will feel like a Nobel Prize winner.
4. Destiny is a choice
It’s completely up to you whether you want to pursue your destiny or not. If you don’t want to, no one can force you.
5. Destiny happens over a lifetime
Destiny is actually realizing who you really are over the years. It is like a gift to be unwrapped over the years.
6. Change your beliefs
You should change your beliefs that are stopping you from reaching your destiny. Sticking to the same old beliefs will take you nowhere.
Use these suggestions and work hard to move towards your destiny. Your ultimate happiness lie in your destiny.